How Long Should You Date Before Making It Official?

The Talk: Defining the Relationship

The “what are we” phase in dating is a confusing and, at times, frustrating place to be. You want to move forward, but you’re not sure if she feels the same way.

Signs You’re Ready to Make It Official

Before having the talk and asking her the big question, you need to re-evaluate your relationship first. Ask yourself if you’re truly ready to be in a proper relationship with this girl.

It’s finally time to ask, “Do you want to be my girlfriend?”



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Adrianna Dela Torre

Adrianna Dela Torre

Adrianna is a Professional Matchmaker and Relationship Counselor for