Creative Ways to Avoid Arguments with Latinas

Turn to Destructive Therapy

When counting one to a hundred, breathing in and out, and meditating don’t work anymore, it might be time to turn to another alternative way to channel your aggression.

Get Physical, Work Out Together

If you and your girlfriend feel like destroying things is too violent, you could always opt for exercise. It basically provides the same benefits, minus the violence.

Schedule Fun Activities Together

You’ve probably figured it out by now, the goal is to tire her out so she won’t have the energy to stir an argument with you. It’s stealthy, genius, and effective.

  • Go on a mini-vacation.
  • Go camping.
  • Go clubbing.
  • Have game nights.
  • Go shopping.
  • Have a spa day.
  • Try gardening.

Try Expressive Art Therapy

Randomly play her favorite salsa music and watch her stop mid-argument. To add to the charm, take her hand and start dancing with her in your living room space. She can’t resist dancing and Latin music, she is a Latina after all.

Have Weekly Talks and Reflections

Without a doubt, the most effective way to deal with disagreements in relationships is to talk it out with each other. You need to calmly figure out what the issue is and tackle it head-on. There’s no other way to do it. You can’t avoid it forever.

  • It’s okay to disagree. Some issues can’t be resolved and that’s okay. It’s best to just drop it and move on.
  • Learn when to compromise. Though easier said than done, you need to find a middle ground where there is no winner or loser in the situation.
  • Take your time to apologize. When all is said and done, end an argument with an apology. Grudges have no place in a happy and thriving relationship.

Love and Communication

To tell you the truth, it’s difficult to avoid arguments in relationships.

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Adrianna Dela Torre

Adrianna Dela Torre

Adrianna is a Professional Matchmaker and Relationship Counselor for latinlovemates.com.